" You are and were a daughter to my parents. You took care of them like they were yours attending to their every need, in sickness and health. You took them under your care even though I was not able to meet all the payment needs. I can still remember the day that I called you helpless and hopeless. Those sweet generous words of yours still bring tears to my eyes. You gave my parents a home. Still a home for amma. Then in our crisis you gave me a home. For a month, you housed me, fed me, comforted me. Lavender Oaks was my “home” where our relatives came to visit and comfort us. The carers, the aunties and uncles, were my family. The carers were so hospitable always welcoming us with a genuine smile and supporting us all the while. "